Loving Yourself: The Best Therapy Of Life

Hello there,

I hope hope you're doing good! Today, I have brought something new and efficient topic to talk about. You can call it the best or the worst, but its love. This word has broke a million hearts but joined some very special souls together but there's one question that pops in my mind why we need to love ourselves or someone else? I hope you also think about this when you're alone.

So let me answer these questions and make you happy for your presence, let's hope on guys:

Find Who You Are First

We always try to find our soul mates or lovers in this world, but we never tried to love ourselves. We always use this quote: "first, look into yourself and then point out someone else's mistakes," but we all somehow failed to imply this in our real life. We always try to love someone else but never loved ourselves first.

Stop Blaming Yourself

We always blame or ask the person to make us feel comfortable or match our vibe but we never matched our own. You have everything in yourself, the best and the worst so why do you need to worry about your body, makeup, clothes? Why? You are not locked in a cage, you are a bird and you can fly on your own in the endless sky. You have one life to love yourself and the whole world, so don’t waste it on toxic people or toxic environment.

Love Yourself More

Start loving yourself and see the world, you will notice the changes in your own self, you will be bold and confident like you ever dreamed of being. Imagine this, stand in front of a mirror, see your body, your face, embrace and touch your scars/pimples, love your flaws, and love yourself. Close your eyes and feel like you're the queen of the world, which was only possible because you loved yourself.

Conclusion

I am also giving you a valid reason, as you might think that these are my theories or inspired words but the logic behind your presence is here, girls/guys: god, send you in this world, alone, with your parents, brothers or sisters, but you were born alone, you stayed in your mom’s belly alone. God, made you so strong, your mom formed your heart in nine months, so actually, you loved your presence there and you're still loving it, but when you are in a relationship with a toxic person and your heart breaks because of them. Whereas you should love your heart for yourself, your personality. you are an angel, always made to fly and spread her magic in the world.

No one is gonna make you love yourself, you have to do it on your own. Stop doubting yourself or crying for your presence or praying for your absence, see the world with bold, confident eyes.

If you can love someone else, I am confident enough to say, that you can love yourself too. Let me give you an extra trip: call your travel agent, book a ticket, go for shopping and spa, explore the world, be a solo traveler, and at the end of the trip, you're gonna be happy and laughing. I promise this from the bottom of my heart, believe me.

Self-love can change the way you live and see the world in good. It is the biggest and best weapon to remove your anxieties and insecurities.

-Khushi Gupta, writer ( @uniqueness_ineverything )